tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4820368607866795969.post488244733624326529..comments2024-03-22T14:31:24.491-04:00Comments on Azoowho - Adventures in Male Infertility: SecrecyJ - azoowho@gmail.comhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04279723945043196663noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4820368607866795969.post-79072990559032661212009-11-04T10:20:12.792-05:002009-11-04T10:20:12.792-05:00I don't have any sage advice for you, but I ju...I don't have any sage advice for you, but I just wanted to give you some support. Last November is when we started our visits and going to an RE- it is crazy how time flies when you are having 'fun'.<br />Until my DH does his TESA/MESA we are working with the Azoo diagnosis and posibilty of DS(we like to be prepared). We stil swing back and forth- it is such a hard choice to make. I could only imagine how hard it is to make the choice of whether to tell or not. <br /><br />PS- I am wordpress now and going to delete my blogger blog soon. Would think about adding open id/wordpress as a choice to leave comments? I won't be able to if you don't. :(ME!https://www.blogger.com/profile/04165329812645814943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4820368607866795969.post-45116835512249764342009-11-03T10:19:41.622-05:002009-11-03T10:19:41.622-05:00We haven't conceived yet much less figured out...We haven't conceived yet much less figured out how is best to go about it, but due to our circumstances we have spent a lot of time and energy thinking about how we would like to handle it. Of course reality may be a totally different ball game.<br /><br />We are of the opinion that as we want to be open with any kids we also want to be open with people around us. I would much prefer that people got take say their dumb things and give their strange looks to us than my LO oneday and hopefully by telling people early (even though it is none of their business) my kids won't get too much strangeness.<br /><br />Just our thoughts on the matter. Good luck with figuring out for yourselves what feels best.Mommy In Waitinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08194796248042842551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4820368607866795969.post-2985689899246219142009-11-02T14:28:20.811-05:002009-11-02T14:28:20.811-05:00We haven't really successfully come to any con...We haven't really successfully come to any conclusion about how to deal with disclosure. My ILs actually know because my husband was going through some stuff with them and felt it was right to tell them. They have been fantastic about it and I'm sure my family will be just as great. He does have a hard time with how/when to tell our son. I think the best thing is to start early on reading books on his age level about the subject that way it just always seems natural to him.<br /><br />I think I'm going to participate in a coaching group via telephone sponsored by the American Fertility Association on the 18th called Parenting Children Conceived w/ Donor Gametes. I found it on their site today and thought it would be a good resource for talking to others.Somewhat Ordinaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09701338805685025735noreply@blogger.com